This past Thursday evening, I came home from work with the kind of focused energy one reserves for Very Big Things. I slipped into comfortable clothes, the kind that whisper, “You’re about to go somewhere extraordinary.” I made sure the […]
This past Thursday evening, I came home from work with the kind of focused energy one reserves for Very Big Things. I slipped into comfortable clothes, the kind that whisper, “You’re about to go somewhere extraordinary.” I made sure the […]
Baruch Shmuely was always a regular kid, just like me. Now, he’s a kid with cancer. I know that shouldn’t come between us. Just one month ago, we would eat supper at each other’s houses and race down the block […]
Question: I have always managed to cope with various difficulties in my life ( which have been no more, no less than other people I know), but recently I have been overwhelmed by a few things that happened all at […]
I’m a little embarrassed to admit it, although everyone who knows me is aware of it, but I’m afraid of flying in an airplane. Until now it hasn’t been a problem because I just didn’t fly. When we were newly […]
I am warning you right off that I am going to sound real religious in this column. So if you are totally not interested, you can skip this article right now. And this article if really for teens, although I […]
Dear Mindy Thank you for all the wonderful of advice you give in your monthly articles. My wife and I find them very interesting and informative. My question is as follows: I want to invite my mother for Shabbos Nachamu […]
“There’s a myth,” says Dr. Tzipporah Koslowitz, that amazing therapist at LINKS who knows lots about grief and therapy, and grief about therapy, “that therapy should make us feel better. And it does—but sometimes, we have to feel worse first. […]
Look, I am not going to convince you that you need therapy. I am not jumping out of this page to drag you off to my office! I am not even going to find out who you are. So why […]
People are going to therapy. Yes! How many people are going to therapy, you want to know? This is what I tell my friends and family when they ask me. “When you sit at a table at a simchah, just […]
Did I ever tell you about my cousin, Mirele? Mirele was born six months after I was. We would have been best friends had she grown up into the cousin I expected her to be. Our families were so close, […]
Using an 8-step protocol which includes a back-and-forth movement (originally only of the eyes; presently, more varied options), EMDR therapy facilitates the accessing and processing of traumatic memories or adverse experiences. It transforms a client's negative beliefs to positive ones, reduces body activation, and allows new behaviors to replace the old.
Somatic IFS is a branch of IFS which uses the 5 practices of: somatic awareness, breath, resonance, movement, and touch. The intention of this practice is to help parts that express themselves through the body reestablish connection to Self, restoring its leadership; healing the injured and traumatized parts, enabling healthy living.
Clinical hypnosis is a technique in which the therapist helps a client go into a deeply focused and relaxed state called a trance, using verbal cues, repetition, and imagery. In this naturally occurring altered state of hypnotic consciousness, therapeutic interventions to address psychological or physical issues are more effective.
IFS views a person as made up of many parts, much like a family, each with its own feelings, thoughts, and even memories. Parts may manifest in troublesome ways, but IFS believes each one is there to protect and help, and the role of therapy is to heal the wounded and hurting parts, uncovering the core Self who will lead these parts with the 8 Cs of: calm, curiosity, clarity, compassion, confidence, courage, creativity, and connectedness.
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy is a body-based, holistic approach to healing that integrates talk therapy, attachment theory, and experiential exercises to address developmental and other trauma that is stored in the body as somatic symptoms. Working with child states and “experiments,” SP therapy accesses material that is often outside of a client’s awareness, facilitating healing and growth.
When the body stores unpleasant sensations as a result of stress, shock, and trauma, SE is a body-based therapy that helps clients to gain awareness of how these cause stuck patterns of flight and fight responses. SE therapy is a gentle method that guides clients to increase their window of tolerance, releasing suppressed trauma and emotions, freeing them of their physical emotional pain.