Baruch Shmuely was always a regular kid, just like me. Now, he’s a kid with cancer. I know that shouldn’t come between us. Just one month ago, we would eat supper at each other’s houses and race down the block […]
Baruch Shmuely was always a regular kid, just like me. Now, he’s a kid with cancer. I know that shouldn’t come between us. Just one month ago, we would eat supper at each other’s houses and race down the block […]
When I taught in Beth Rivka, back in the days when it was still on Church Avenue, the windows of the seventh-grade classroom looking out on Erasmus High School, when we heard loud popping sounds, we assumed it was shots […]
Let’s talk straight here. It’s really hard to be surrounded by dumb people who make the most outrageous, clueless, and insensitive comments. And if we want to perfectly honest—which other people feel they have a right to be when they […]
Question: Every year when we return from the country,I have a lot of trouble getting my children back into normal routine. Do you have any advice on how to make this transition easier? Answer:This problem is the bane of all […]
Question:My son is Bar Mitzvah age and doesn’t seem to have interest in staying for all of davening or laining in shul. Often, he refuses to come to shul at all. He says he’s tired or not feeling well, but […]
Dear MindyIt’s back to school. My daughter is 10 and all excited to start a new year. She’s a straight A student and because she is, she is more the shy type and doesn’t attract as many friends. Last year […]
WELCOME TO MARS Are you starry-eyed? Think you got the best boy in Mir? In Lakewood? From Mars? That he’s perfect for you and you for him? Or, are you a bit nervous about the whole I-am-going-to-be-married-to-this-perfect-stranger-for-the-rest-of-my-life-yikes!? I will […]
It seems ridiculous that to say that forty years ago a second grade teacher changed my life. But it’s true. I sat in the second seat, first row against the wall. I was not the smartest in the class. Or […]
Thank you for the great advice you give in your Ask-the-Therapist columns. My question is as follows: We have never gone to the Catskills for the summer as there was always that cost factor. My wife really wants to go […]
Apparently, the only qualification I needed to write an article originally titled, “What If I Don’t Want to be Available 24/7 to Text?” is that my dumb phone doesn’t even have text. The obvious conclusion being that I can’t be available 24/7 to text; at best, you can call me, at worst you leave a message and I can respond when I have time.
Using an 8-step protocol which includes a back-and-forth movement (originally only of the eyes; presently, more varied options), EMDR therapy facilitates the accessing and processing of traumatic memories or adverse experiences. It transforms a client's negative beliefs to positive ones, reduces body activation, and allows new behaviors to replace the old.
Somatic IFS is a branch of IFS which uses the 5 practices of: somatic awareness, breath, resonance, movement, and touch. The intention of this practice is to help parts that express themselves through the body reestablish connection to Self, restoring its leadership; healing the injured and traumatized parts, enabling healthy living.
Clinical hypnosis is a technique in which the therapist helps a client go into a deeply focused and relaxed state called a trance, using verbal cues, repetition, and imagery. In this naturally occurring altered state of hypnotic consciousness, therapeutic interventions to address psychological or physical issues are more effective.
IFS views a person as made up of many parts, much like a family, each with its own feelings, thoughts, and even memories. Parts may manifest in troublesome ways, but IFS believes each one is there to protect and help, and the role of therapy is to heal the wounded and hurting parts, uncovering the core Self who will lead these parts with the 8 Cs of: calm, curiosity, clarity, compassion, confidence, courage, creativity, and connectedness.
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy is a body-based, holistic approach to healing that integrates talk therapy, attachment theory, and experiential exercises to address developmental and other trauma that is stored in the body as somatic symptoms. Working with child states and “experiments,” SP therapy accesses material that is often outside of a client’s awareness, facilitating healing and growth.
When the body stores unpleasant sensations as a result of stress, shock, and trauma, SE is a body-based therapy that helps clients to gain awareness of how these cause stuck patterns of flight and fight responses. SE therapy is a gentle method that guides clients to increase their window of tolerance, releasing suppressed trauma and emotions, freeing them of their physical emotional pain.